No. 35 David Corner | IHC | Inclusion International

Recorded on October 2022

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Navigating Autism and Intellectual Disability with David Corner: A Journey of Resilience and Advocacy

Embracing Uniqueness and Promoting Inclusion

In the latest episode, we had the opportunity to dive into the inspiring life and insights of David Corner, an individual with autism and intellectual disability. As an advocate for Inclusion International, David has traversed the globe, sharing his experiences and championing for the rights of those with similar challenges. This blog post explores the rich tapestry of David’s journey, the wisdom he insists upon self-disclosure, and his advice for others walking a similar path.

Overcoming Personal Challenges

David Corner’s narrative begins in Wellington, New Zealand, and unfolds through various cities like Palmerston North and Nelson. His life story is imbued with obstacles, including bullying in primary school, being segregated in intermediate and college, and dealing with a ‘lazy eye’ due to a lack of oxygen at birth. These experiences limited his social interactions and understanding of others, presenting a challenging background to navigate through.

David discovered he had autism in 2013 after a specialist consultation—a revelation that added a new layer to his identity and self-understanding. His journey is not just an exploration of personal hardship but also a testament to the resilience and determination to thrive despite the odds.

The Importance of Self-Disclosure in Conferences

David firmly believes in self-disclosure at conferences, sharing personal information to create a relatable and understanding environment. Unlike many speakers who may withhold such details, David’s openness allows others to connect with his perspective profoundly. This act of vulnerability not only fosters empathy but also sets a precedent for inclusiveness and acceptance within professional forums.

Humor and Communication Challenges

Communication can be tricky terrain, especially in the context of autism. David uses humor as a tool in his presentations, though he acknowledges that Kiwi humor might not always translate well internationally. He shares how humor, particularly jokes, can be misunderstood by autistic individuals due to literal interpretations. His advice on filtering thoughts before speaking, using the metaphorical ‘speech bubble,’ is an insightful strategy for effective communication.

Personal Stories of Resilience

David’s life is peppered with achievements and activities that defy the constraints of his conditions. From riding motorbikes to his active participation in Scouts, David’s experiences underscore his adventurous spirit. He also highlights his strong memory and quick processing abilities, traits that have significantly contributed to his advocacy work.

Coping Mechanisms and Support Systems

Managing emotional well-being is crucial, and David employs various strategies to navigate his occasional depressions. He finds solace in activities like reading, walking, and playing outdoor bowls. His family provides unwavering support, exemplified by his sister’s concern for his safety during holidays. He also speaks candidly about using medication when necessary, particularly during travel.

The Role of Inclusion International

As part of Inclusion International, David has travelled extensively, advocating for people with intellectual disabilities and their families. His experiences shed light on the importance of self-advocacy and receiving support when making decisions. His accounts of visiting countries like Nepal, Bangkok, London, and Berlin illustrate his dedication and the broad scope of his impact.

Reflecting on Autism and Intellectual Disability

David provides deep insights into the uniqueness of autism and intellectual disability, emphasizing that once acknowledged, these conditions can lead to a better comprehension of oneself. He cites notable figures like Albert Einstein and Steve Jobs, who might have been on the autism spectrum, to inspire others to embrace their uniqueness and live authentically. Using Robin Williams as a poignant example, David underscores that many individuals may remain unaware of their condition without proper diagnosis.

Advice and Philosophy

David’s advice to autistic individuals is simple yet profound: “be yourself” and live life on your terms. He advocates for the importance of understanding one’s condition for a better quality of life and suggests that parents spend time connecting with their autistic children. His belief in neurodiversity—that everyone is unique in their neurological makeup—champions the value of different perspectives and abilities in society.

Closing Thoughts

In his closing remarks, the podcast host reiterates the importance of perseverance. David Corner’s story is a powerful reminder that failing is part of the journey, but the essence lies in not giving up. Unity and mutual support are essential, as everyone navigates their paths in life, learning and growing from each experience.

David Corner’s narrative is a beacon of hope, demonstrating that with resilience, support, and self-advocacy, individuals with autism and intellectual disability can lead fulfilling and impactful lives. His journey continues to inspire and educate, fostering an inclusive world where every voice is heard and valued.

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